Your task: As Danny or Reuven, write a letter to your friend. Tell your friend about your life since you last spoke.
Date the letter: one to five years after the closing of the novel. Use historical references in the novel to approximate the date.
Periods 8&9 will post first, and 2&3 will respond as the friend. Check the list at the bottom of the post to see which student you are responding to. 8&9 are required to post a draft by Friday so 2&3 can respond over the weekend. You can edit and make changes over the weekend.
Use Details to make it real: Here's a list of questions raised by 8&9 to address in your letter.
This assignment requires the same creativity that made your newspapers of ancient Greece successful. You must invent details supported by your knowledge of the source, in this case, The Chosen.
1. Your personality: How would your character write to his friend? Would your character use humor? Refer to passages with dialogue between these two characters.
2. Setting: Historical context or events at the time of your letter.
3. Family: How is the health of Mr. Malter or Danny's brother (what's his name?)?
Does Danny's brother continue the dynasty? Are Danny and Reb Saunders speaking?
Do they have children? (Remember that they are about 22 when the novel closes.)
4. Goals: How close are they to achieving their goals? Have they followed through or change their paths?
5. Religion: Changes in religious practice or beliefs?
6. Inside jokes between them.
7. Unresolved questions raised by the characters. Unresolved events from the novel.
8. Questions you (the Gateway student reading The Chosen) would want to ask the other character.
Character Assignments:
Reuven (8&9) Danny (2&3)
1 Allen, Robert 1 Abdelhameed, Adham
2 Berlin, Daniel 2 Abdulwali, Frishta
3 Bystrik, Josef 3 Adu, Kevin
4 Cai, Jun Ye 4 Ahmed, Shajed
5 Chen, Amy 5 Cantillo, Samuel
6 Dayen, Daniel 6 Chan, Sabrina
7 Edwards III, Darwin 7 Chee, Eric
8 Ghuman, Khizar 8 Chessky, Anna
9 Haque, Tamanna 9 Choudhury, Nishat
10 Hasan, Nishat 10 Dalkir, Arda
11 Henry Rerrie, Stephon 11 Deng, Rebecca
12 Ibikunle, Opeyemi 12 Eng, Mitchell
13 Jahan, Tameem 13 Fouchong Brown, Yasmin
14 Khan, Mir 14 Fu, Selena
15 Koon, Kevin 15 Fung, Tiffany
16 Leung, Cynthia 16 Garcia, Anthony
17 Lim, Shelly 17 Inkateshta, Nathan
Danny (8&9) Reuven (2&3)
18 Lin, Andy 18 Jishu, Jessan
19 Malouf, Valentina 19 Khalique, Saif
20 Martin, Kaitlyn 20 Lau, Kelly
21 McLean, Kishauna 21 Lee, James
22 Memon, Alisha 22 Leong, Daria
23 Moses, Kevin 23 Leung, Samson
24 Ramadan, Marwan 24 Li, Gabrielle
25 Rodriguez, Zackary 25 Lopez, Erika
26 Roy, Shusmita 26 Lynch, Makeda
27 Sarango, Brian 27 Lyons, Krystalle
28 SiboonRuang, Tana 28 Mahmud, Arif
29 Syed, Shumayl 29 Nadeem, Bilal
30 Sze, Angela 30 Ozinegbe, Ehichoya (Matilda)
31 Villegas, Steven 31 Saw-Aung, Monica
32 Wong, Jeffrey 32 Talal, Lilian
33 Yang, Kerina 33 Walcott, Aliyah
34 Yong, Emily (respond to Kerina's letter.)
Danny's brother's name is Levi, just in case you were to involve him in your letter
ReplyDeleteThanks Mir! Great attention to detail.
Delete-Mr. Shellhase
July 21, 1953
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
It's been so long since I've seen you friend. Once we turned the corner to part ways, it's like we put away a chapter in a very interesting book. I remember we spoke to each other at a seminar that I attended at Columbia. You seemed kind of skinny. You need some pork chops (please don't eat it). How's your father Danny, I heard that he turned 69 around last month. He is so old....sad to see your family get old. Does he still give you the silent treatment even though you're like 28 now? He should have stopped that stupid treatment around 28 years ago I guess.
You need to give me a call sometime 347-932-4442. We can chat for hours. Probably get your mind off of that psychology stuff and psychoanalysis. You haven't looked for me for help in the logistics part of it so it seems like you know what you're doing.
Get a girlfriend man! Start a family!(if you haven't already). Im waiting to see your children in the future to tell them of the stories that we share. Whenever you need me you can call me. For support and for math help.
Always there,
Reuven Malter
Stephon,
DeleteJust some preliminary comments:
1. This is a good start. I definitely see your use of humor here. Although, I wonder if Reuven would make a joke about non-kosher food. Are there any traditionally Jewish foods referenced in the novel you could use?
2. What's the phone number? Remember you're posting on the Internet. Whether it's real or not, please change it to a 555 number, for example: 347-555-4442.
3. I'd like to see more details about Reuven, and how his choice to become a rabbi has changed or not changed his life. Instead of writing "the stories that we share," share some of the stories you found significant.
-Mr. Shellhase
July 29th, 1953
DeleteDear Reuven,
Hey! Long time no see! My classes are going well, and psychoanalysis is extremely interesting! Don’t worry when I am finally free from my studies, I will visit you for Shabbat as I promised. We can still read over the Talmud if you want. Remember the time I hit you with the baseball? You could barely see after that! It still amazes me that you forgave me even if I made you blind. I think I’ll pass this one Reuven, I need to lay off the pork chops, trying to keep fit for the ladies, you know? Reb Saunders is doing well since Levi is holding up the dynasty better than I ever could. Although, I think Reb Saunders is still disappointed in me for choosing not to be a rabbi just like him. I hope he understands after all these years that becoming a rabbi is not what I want. I can’t ever thank you enough for comforting me during the “silence treatment” he gave me. Thank you. How is Mr. Malter doing?
Definitely! Mailing letters sure take a long time. You can call me at: 917-555-3309. Just don’t call me during school hours! I am busy with my studies in psychology, thank you for caring. How about you? How is your symbolic logic going?
I have no time for a girl, Reuven! Maybe after my studies I’ll find the one. Until then, call me or write back soon!
I wish you the best for your future!
Sincerely,
Danny Saunders
1950
ReplyDeleteDear Reuven,
It seems so weird knowing I haven't talked to you in two years! I'm still going towards my dream and haven't quit since then. I know you wanted to be a rabbi, how's that going? I'm glad to know that Levi, my little brother, will take on the dynasty. As a result, my father has been less disappointed lately.
Also, I'm still unsure about religion on a whole. The world seems so complex and I don't feel I should be tied down to one belief, being open lets me learn more about life.
I have a bunch of stories to tell you about my life, and I'm sure you do too. I hope you're not disappointed that we haven't talked as much as we hoped to. However, aside from my dreams, I want to one day reestablish the close bond we had before. No one seems to understand me how you did.
Write back soon.
Your Buddy,
Danny Saunders
November 23, 1950
DeleteDear Danny,
You don't know this, but my mouth dropped when I got your letter. I miss you, and I can't believe two years passed. Wow, your brother is taking up the dynasty? Do you remember the time where we were discussing how to confront your father? I was more worried than you. Tell Levi to stay strong and spread the word. Ask your father too, he is good man. I look up to him. By the way, that is amazing your father's health has been improving.
I don't disagree with you, you are in Colombia with your psycho studies, no wonder the stress is so tough on you kiddo. Just hearing the name "Colombia" gives me chills. I'm learning that there is so much to learn about this world, and the religions around us. Just remember, if you need anything tell me. You are strong, like what happened years ago, pitching the ball at my eye. I felt like strangling you, but we learned more about each other later on. I never forgot and this is why our friendship is so strong.
Yours Truly,
Reuven
P.S. If you find someone you like, tell me!
I miss our Saturdays....
Please come visit.
2/28/1953
ReplyDeleteDear Reuven,
It’s been a while, hasn’t it? It’s been a year since I last saw you. I still have your mountainous pile of psychology books that you gave me on the day of my graduation in Columbia University. Although it is a very new residency program, I very much enjoy the Psychiatry Residency Program at Mayo Clinic in Rochester (Minnesota), which has been established three years ago. There are barely any Hasidic Jews, no in fact, I’m the only Hasidic Jew in the program. “I feel like a cowboy surrounded by Indians.” Remember this line that you said when you went to visit my father the first time? I guess I know how you’re truly feeling.
You must have been quite worried about me for not keeping in touch, or probably not since you know how years of study it takes to become a psychiatrist. You must be quite busy yourself, with all of your followers (even my father’s followers) coming to confess sins or have discussions about Talmud. Do you still visit my father on Saturdays to study (or perhaps discuss) the Talmud? I hope you are because he must be getting lonely. I’m receiving a little more calls and letters from him than usual. It’s quite odd. Sometimes I feel like a child when talking with my father. We talk about things a little boy and his father would be talking about such as fiction stories, although we still talk about the Talmud. It seems like my father and I trying to make up for the silence between us, although this won’t change the fact that I “hear” silence, meaning I;m aware of the sufferings people have in this world.
I’m really overjoyed that my brother is doing fairly well! My father had told me that he is being more active lately. He’s running, walking, and even studying the Talmud for long hours! Hopefully, he will take the position of the tzaddik. Now don’t think of me as selfish. It’s true that I had said that my concern about his health was a fake and that I don’t have a much of relationship with him. However, my pity has grown into a stronger love for my brother (not that I’m saying I didn’t love him before) but I promise you that we have a stronger relationship. That time I was in line of inheritng my father’s place, but now that I’m truly studying psychiatry, I have no concerns about the tzaddik position. The thoughts about inheriting the tzaddik positon has been replaced about my curiosity and wonder about my brother. It might please to know that we even exchange letters, though not often. Though I would like to know, does he enjoy studying Talmud with you and my father? Or does he have other interests like I had?
DeleteTell me about your rabbi life. How are the Shabbats and Afternoon Services? Are you enjoying it? Tell me about your followers. Remember when you told me that you were dating regularly on Saturday night during our college days? Well, this might be shocking, but I found a girl that I really like, and no, she’s not those western, modern girls. She’s in a medical school, hoping to become a pharmacist. She’s Hasidic and she’s an observer of the Commandments. She also reads the Talmud every day. I don’t plan on marrying her yet. I would like to know her more, but doesn’t she sounds like a girl my father would like? I haven’t told my father about this yet and I’m nervous. As usual, I need your advice, Reuven. What about you? Have you met a girl you like? Did you get engaged? Oh, please do tell me. I will end here and I promise that there will be more letters to come.
Yours Truly,
Danny Saunders
April 25, 1953
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
How are you doing my friend? Still thinking about Freud? You've been seeing the news at all lately? Israel is having some trouble with the Palestinians, they're now trying to invade Israel by sea now. Enough with the gloomy stuff, how's Levi doing and how's the dynasty holding up? And have you talked to your father lately?
There's a reason I decided to write you today.. five years ago today, Passover of 1953 began today and you were free to pursue Freud. How's that going for you? However it went,I hope it's even better for you in the future. Are you still reading the Talmud and the Torah? Wouldn't want to disappoint a rabbi now would you? Why don't you come over to my synagogue later, you could show people what a great Talmudist can be.
One last thing, did you meet anyone special these last five years? Well. if you have, I hope you and your significant other have a good life.
Sincerely,
Reuven Malter
P.S. Know any good women I can meet? I want a girl with your blessings my friend
P.S.S My father sends his best regards, and assures you he's healthy and well.
DeleteMay 13th, 1953
DeleteDear Reuven,
I'm doing great my dear friend, how have you been? I think about Freud occasionally, though I don't have much time. Levi is doing great, he's been so much better after all his sicknesses have gone away. I don't feel as bad for not becoming the rabbi my father wanted me to be, but at least I didn't exactly break the dynasty! My father and I have been communicating much more and I must thank you. I am still reading the Talmud and the Torah but not as much as I had in high school. I've been reading more about psychology and such. Of course, I would never want to disappoint a great rabbi like you Reuven. I plan on going to your synagogue later this week, if you don't mind. Don't worry, I'll try not to outshine you during the studies or prayers.
I am sorry to disappoint you Reuven but I don't know of many good women, I have been too busy with my studies. But did you used to like my sister? Either way, I am sure that you will find your significant other. My father send you his best regards as well and wonders when he will see you again to study the Talmud.
Sincerely,
Danny Saunders
P.S. We should go horseback riding. I heard it was very exciting.
November 22, 1951
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
-----------It’s been a long while since we haven’t gotten together! I’ve heard so much about you through my father. Oh, congratulations on your grades in psychology so far. Best scholar! By the looks of it, if my father keeps on saying praise about you, I’ll need a huge skullcap to cover my dainty ears. I’ve been studying deeply in the Talmud these days. My father says I’m not ready yet to become a rabbi in his eyes. I’m too young to know the suffering of the people, he says. What is he suppose to mean by that? Your brother’s already a tzaddik. I saw him with a group of followers. Look how grown up he is! 1 person, 2 persons, 2 persons, 4 persons… all following your brother. That’s a nice tzaddik you got there!
------------I guess I’m doing well in basically everything… How about you? My father’s heart condition has gotten better. We even went touring in the Adirondacks last month! He says hello to you by the way. Every morning, we do an analysis of the sections in the Talmud and I have to memorize three blatts. That’s so much fun. I’m sure you’ll like to do that. My father’s thinking about retiring lately. He knows I’m going to become a rabbi and he needs his rest. Poor old man!
-----------I called your sister (What was her name? Rita? Fiona?) once through the phone. Your father nearly gave me a heart attack when he answered first instead. I’ve never doing that again! Have you heard about the Korean War lately? My father said that so many young Jews have been going to war lately. I haven’t really paid much attention to the news lately. Oh, and I know what’s going on with you not contacting me. You’ve got a girlfriend, haven’t you? I just knew you’d meet one in Columbia. WRITE to me SOON!
Laters,
Reuven Malter
November 29,1951
DeleteDear Reuven,
Don't be so cute about it Malter, I don't have a girlfriend. Not yet at least. I am kind of taking it one date at a time and then I wait to see if she is still on good terms with me when I call her (or she calls me). I am not used to this dating stuff; the only knowledge about dating that I know of comes from my roommate, Roland, and I don't think he is much help.
Columbia really opened up my views on psychology. I finally understand what Dr. Applemen was trying to tell me about experimental psychology and Freud. Apparently, experimental psychology can help us understand Freud's hypothesis by allowing us to see how the mind comprehends and views the world, and from this we can explore further possibilities using Freud as a reference (which means that his books are always in our hands). Professor Striekhenhofer, who is our instructor, brings out these ideas in full vividness.
I am so happy to hear that my brother is going to be the new tzaddik, and this time I really mean it. by the way, how is my father? You never said a word about him. Please visit him someday, or I'll force you to catch a baseball with your eye again.
My roommate doesn't see this but sometimes when I am done with my work in the dorm, in the middle of the night, I take out a pocket-size edition of a volume of the Talmud, that I had recently acquired, and began to study it. However I can only go over it one blatt a night.
Yes, i have heard about the Korean War but I am not really concerned about it. What I am really concerned about is this: a group of government officials have been walking about the campus and asking both students and faculty alike about just how patriotic they are to this country. i found this rather strange until I heard some of the students talking about Communist spies in America working in the federal government and sending secret information to the Soviet Union. Everyone fears that they will be arrested if they said something wrong.
Mind if I ask you this question, even though it may be personal: who is your mother? i know she died but who was she really? i would like to know. Send me the answer one day.
Your Friend,
Daniel Saunders.
5/29/1951
ReplyDeleteHey Danny,
How are you? How’s Columbia? Is your psychology class meeting your expectations? I’ve missed you so much. I really hope to see you this summer. There’s a lot we need to discuss. For example, you just have to tell me how you like your new school. Also, I need to tell you my story of my new Yeshiva. It is not far from your father’s synagogue. It is a bit different though from your father’s. In my synagogue, there are many programs for non observant jews to get more in touch with Judaism. There is also a program that helps children learn Hebrew and Yiddish. Mabe these programs will someday develop into a school like Hirsch under my great- great- great- grand- children’s authority.
Enough about myself; tell me more about your family. I want to know if everyone is okay. Is your brother recovering from his illness? How’s Reb Saunders? Does he support you in all of your decisions or has he not yet completely give up on his hopes of you becoming the next tzaddik? Please write back as soon as possible. Also, tell me when we’re going to meet next!
Your friend,
Reuven
September 14, 1951
ReplyDeleteDear Reuven,
Hey! Summer just ended, but you know, I already miss you quite a lot. Our last night together was fantastic. I must say, your cooking is phenomenal, but dessert was much better... I've just returned to Columbia, by the way. I spent my last week before returning in Israel with my father. He has most definitely come around to the idea of a Jewish State. He told me I stuck out horribly without my earlocks and beard, but I've never felt better without them. Once I'm making a good amount of money, I'll take you to Israel with me. Just the two of us.
My brother, Levi, is doing well. Now that I'm out of the house and communication is open with my family, he's grown on me. He hasn't been to the hospital since last year, did you know? Unlike myself, he's quite willing to continue the Dynasty, hah. How is your father, by the way? I'm sorry I only got a chance to see him a few times when I was staying with you. Though you did keep me plenty busy all by yourself.
I'm sure I've told you before, but this year is going to be absolutely brutal. I'm starting my third year...well on my way to becoming a psychiatrist, but the workload. I never thought I would miss our first year of college as much as I do. Remember when you taught me simple graphing? I never realized how much I would miss simply spending time with you, even if it was stressful. How are you doing as a rabbi without me there? I know the people accepted us without much trouble when I was there with you, but are they acting the same without my presence? I promise I'll come right home if they give you a hard time. I can put off a few day's work for you.
By the way, my sister is pregnant with her second child. Isn't that something? Imagine if we adopted a child one day? You know, I did say I would raise a child in silence...but with you, I don't think I would. I know you would teach any child compassion in a much healthier way.
I miss you and I'll see you in a few weeks. I promise.
Love always,
Danny Saunders
xoxoxo
Very nice work, keep it up, you are the future of America!
ReplyDeleteI hope you plan the test out as well as this assignment because it's gunna drop our grades like the last one if not properly written, but at least we had a lot of study time
ReplyDeleteWhen you comment, write yor real name!
DeleteDear Reuven,
ReplyDeleteHey, summer just ended, I miss you a lot even though it has been only one year. My studies at Columbia has been great so far. I hope to see you during the summer. I am still troubled by my father, we haven't talked much the past few weeks. My brother on the other hand has gotten a lot better, he does not need as much medicine as he used to.
Enough about me, how are you Reuven, how is your career of being a Rabbi? I surly hope you are having great success. It has been a while since Israel became a state, want to visit with me? We can visit during the summer and we can share what has been going on in our life. My sister got married, and her first child is on the way. Remember when we were young? You were trying so hard to teach me math. I really want to show off my new knowledge. I miss you, I will see you sometime in the summer.
Your Friend,
Danny Saunder
Dear Danny,
DeleteIt certainly has been a long time since we have last spoken. 5 years! Can you believe that? I'm glad to hear from you and that you are doing well. I have made great progress as a Rabbi but still have much to learn. I still study the Talmud intensely everyday. What types of things have you learned at Columbia? How is the education there?
I would definitely love to come visit you over the summer to catch up and reminisce about our childhood! I remember when we used to go to the library together and read. Ah, good times.
I am very happy to hear that your sister is doing well. What does she plan to name the baby if it is a boy? Girl? In regards to your father, do you know why you have not talked for awhile? Try calling him or meeting for lunch one day and see if that helps. I hope you and your father can work it out. I am also glad to hear that your brother is improving in health.
Give your family my best wishes and tell them I say hello. I miss you as well and hope we see each other this summer.
Sincerely,
Reuven
Dear Danny,
ReplyDeleteIt's been so long since I've seen you friend. I dreaded the day that we would part and go our separate ways; we've done so for over 5 years. How has life been for you? I remember, after we left, we promised to keep in contact with each other. But, moving away has its consequences. Heck, I don't even know if this is till your address! But regardless, I've been interested in how you and your family have been faring. I remember you father; he's nearing his 70's now, isn't he? How's your relationship with him; does he still treat you with silence like he always did? Or has his old age made him a humbler and more compassionate man? I'm quite interested.
I really hope that you respond to this letter. I'm so interested about what's happened to you, and I'm eager to learn about how your life is going.
Your good friend,
Reuven Malter
P.S. What did you think of Freud?
Dear Reuven,
DeleteIts been so long since I last talked to you buddy.Its been hard ever since we seperated and left each other. Five years is a long time. How are you doing? I've been doing fine except I still don't really talk to my father that much we just had an arguement the other day and we haven't talked since at least I still talk to my brother but he still is very sick, I still hope he gets better. My brother Levi seems like he actually wants to continue the Dynasty. I am nearly done with my studies but I still study and work hard. I work hard so that one day I can become a good psychologist.
Now about you, how the job as a rabbi? Is is faring well? I hope so! Say hi to your father would you. I would like to talk to him about some books and how he's doing.
P.S. Does that eye still hurt? Get better, Ok!
Your friend,
Danny Saunders
5/10/1957
ReplyDeleteDear Reuven,
Though time and space separate us, I feel we are still close friends, and I earn for your understanding presence in these tough times. I just finished my exhaustive study and am currently starting up my own clinic. The dynasty back home is doing well; Levi's health is exceptional. Though my relationship is not where it should be, I am proud of the progress that has initiated in terms of our brotherly love. He has continued our families legacy graciously, and currently has a serious girlfriend he is very serious about (baby Saunders in the future). As for my father, he is on the most part silent, though he is beginning to change. The first being that he is occasionally breaking his code of silence to talk to me and is also talking about Israel, and though they are not always nice words, he is at least beginning to think about it. Speaking about religion, I am still not wearing the traditional Hasidic attire. Now that I am going to be running a business and helping people of all kinds, I want to be looked as versatile, and approachable (I am not blind to the stereotypes). I still hold my identity true to heart, but not like I had before.
Enough about me! Reuven, how are your rabbinic studies, and your grades. I hope you haven't lost touch of your other passions and gifts by pursuing the life of a rabbi. How is your wife? I haven't seen her since the wedding (which was greatly entertaining). I am waiting for the baby pictures Reuven...any day now.
REPLY SOON!!!!!!
P.S. I am organizing a baseball game as a reunion...your team against mine!
Your Friend,
Danny Saunders
Dear Danny,
DeleteI am glad to see that you are doing well. It has been so long since we have last spoken to each other( 5 years to be exact!). Now lets get to the real topic at hand which is your relationship with your father. I am glad to see that he is occasionally talking to you, but I want there to be a real father-son relationship. Also make sure that Levi's health stays that way. Now about my rabbinic studies and my grades, they are great and I am trying to keep my grades up. My wife is great and I am glad that you found the wedding nice too. Wait some longer for those pictures!!!
P.S. That game is not gonna happen because I still have one good eye.
Your Friend,
Rueven
2/14/1953
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
My dear friend, it's been quite a long time since we communicated with each other! So, how's life? I miss you so much and I hope you feel the same way about me. I heard about your success in the field of psychology in Columbia! Words cannot explain how proud I am. Keep up the good work and continue to reach for your goal of becoming a psychologist!
I want to know your opinion on Dwight D. Eisenhower becoming president. He was just inaugurated last month. I think Eisenhower is going to be a good president. Did you know that Eisenhower was the president of Columbia University? I find that pretty interesting!
Remember when my father was ill because of his heart? Well, the good news is that his condition is improving. My father talks to me about you sometimes. I think it's because he misses you. How is the Dynasty with your brother, Levi? I hope your father is communicating with you more! Recently, I had a dream about you getting married and having children. Your children seemed to be very quiet.
Everyone has been telling me that I'm ready to be a rabbi. However, I don't think I'm ready. Sometimes, I still wonder if I should have followed my father's wish to become a mathematician, but I tell myself that since I've come pretty close to becoming a rabbi, I will continue to strive towards it. Oh yeah! When you become a psychologist, let me be the first one to know. I know you'll make it!
Do you still read the Talmud? Did your earlocks grow? Do you have a beard and a mustache? How do you look like right now? I'm quite curious. I don't think I've changed a lot. I'm still the Reuven you know. Please tell me you are free in the summer. I would love to meet up with you and have a good time. I'll be waiting for your reply, my dear.
-Love,
Reuven ♥
Dear Reuven,
DeleteDont ever think for a moment that i never missed you. You are my truest friend. At Colombia, I'm really concentrating in my studies and exceling at school (as usual). The people here are great and are very kind. They would've accepted me even with my hairlocks!
Yeah it's kinda ironic how the greatest politician of our time was the president of Colombia just like me! This doesn't mean that im going to become president of the United States either. Politics don't really interest me like psycology.
I'm glad to hear that your father is doing great and I really appreciate everything he did for me. Make sure to tell him that. If it wasn't for him, I would have never read Freud, or even meet you! My father and I talk alot now and he is glad that I did not become a tzaddik. After all, that is why he never spoke to me, he did not want me to live in an intelectual cage but to experience the world outside our seccluded community instead. My brother is doing well and he is studying hader than ever to become the tzaddik. Poor Boy :(.
Please don't dream about me, its kinda wierd. Seriously.
Anyways, you shouldn't worry. You are a natural Rabbi. I mean, when my father and I discussed Talmud, you could keep up with our pace, which is something a normal person can't do.
I'm still the same and yeah we should meet up again on shabbat. My father would like that.
With love,
Your homeboy Danny
6/11/1950
ReplyDeleteDear Reuven,
I am so sorry that we have not talked in a long time. I must take the blame for this; I simply have too much on my plate at the moment. You know that I was planning to become a psychologist, but you would never know how much work that has to go into this job! I moved to Boston to attend a local university there, and I’m just simply astounded by the work that I have to do four my courses. Never in my studies have I been pushed this hard in my life. I have two years more of this torture, then I can finally start practicing.
I expect you would also be curious about my family. My brother Levi is doing well, tremendous even. I can’t remember the last time he’s been to the hospital - apparently the new cocktail of drugs is working for him. The last time I spoke to him, he told me that he wanted to be a tzaddik, “Just like Dad”. Naturally, this made me happy, and my father is ecstatic with the new turn of events. We regularly write to each other, and in his last letter he said I would be an asset to the world. This made me miss New York completely - even though I shaved and stopped wearing traditional Hasidic clothing, I can’t help but miss my community and my religion. You of all people must know how this feels.
And how are you, my dear friend? How is that eye of yours? When I last spoke to Rev Gershenson, our old teacher, he reported to me that you were making headway in your rabbinical studies. I am overjoyed in hearing that you are continuing your dream to be a rabbi. Also, please give my warm greetings to your father. I miss his library recommendations, and naturally I pray for his good health and strength.
Please respond to this as soon as you get this mail. I forgot how much I needed a friend like you, Reuven. It is my hope that we can see each other soon.
Your friend,
Danny.
6/16/1950
DeleteDear Danny,
Guten Tag! I'm doing fine. How's your German coming along? I've been studying the Talmud for quite a while now and all this is bringing back too much. Studying the Talmud reminds me of what separated us in the first place: our religious differences. That has been long resolved after that baseball game but soon after that we were again brought apart just because of some stupid tradition of teaching silence is worth more than speech. Those were hard times. I'm happy for you that your father is now satisfied that Levi is the new "tzaddik in training".
Why are you asking about my eye? It's been healed for long! Now that you've brought it up, I've been reminded about Billy and his unsuccessful operation. In a quick change of events I've decided on not becoming a rabbi of Judaism but a a rabbi of Pastafarianism. It's along story but I'm happy to part from the painful memories Judaism has brought me. My father is doing well and has made progress in recovering.
You must visit us and the old library sometimes. It must bring back some memories of Freud and that dictionary. Have you got a family yet? I've been planning on proposing sometime this year to someone special I've met recently. Have you heard of Russia and the United States? Boy are things tense with the creation of East and West Germany. I also feel sorry for the Japs all the way around the globe. Their homes were leveled with the creation of that dreaded atom bomb. After this war, things should become a bit more peaceful but that doesn't look like the case with the US and the Reds having their fingers on the launch buttons 24/7. Come visit sometime!
6/9/1951
ReplyDeleteReuven,
I really miss you! We haven't talked in what felt like ages. I still remember the last time we talked, in my room at Columbia. I missed you every since our night together. I'm sorry we haven't been talking. You and I are both busy these days. Tell your father I wish him the best. I hope he's doing fine himself.
How are you? Get a girlfriend? How's your path at being a rabbi? (I still almost can't believe you're becoming one!) I'm doing pretty good at Columbia, actually. A bit more work each year but nothing that my photographic memory can't handle! I'll be a psychologist soon! My brother is taking over the dynasty and I've gotten much closer to him. My father is talking to be a lot more too, surprisingly. Oh, I still don't have my side curls and I'm not wearing Hasidic clothes. I feel more comfortable.
I hope to see you this summer. We can hang out again with your father. Or without. I prefer us being alone. We'll also go to Israel together and maybe play a little baseball like the old days. I look forward to it!
~ Danny
6/11/1951
DeleteHey Danny,
I miss you too! How could I forget, you couldn't stop talking about that favorite teacher of yours.Professor Appleman, was it? Tell me, how's Freud going for you, nowadays? Thank you, I'll make sure to tell him that. He's weak these days, but he still manages to ask after you, and your father of course.
I'm fine, Danny. As a matter a fact, I do. Her name is Ava, she's also planning o studying the Talmud. She wants to become a journalist, and write about the fed going on between the different Jews of today.
Hah! Danny Saunders finding something challenging, I think I can finally see the world in a new light, now That memory of yours is going to get you in trouble one day, Danny. Psychologist, ay? I'm looking forward to step by step analysis of all my emotional problems, and situations.
How's your old man, by the way. Reb Saunders, talking? I think the world might just end soon. I'm happy to hear that Danny, your little brother always did seem to have some hidden potential. Looking forward to this summer, as well. I think I'd like to see you without my father. We do always have fun alone, don't we? Baseball? Hah! I like my eyes in my head, thank you. unless you plan on telling we when to duck.
Love,
Reuven
______________________________________________July 1st,1951
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
-We haven't talked in a while, three years to be exact. I've missed our talks about the world and how it works.
-Hows everyone doing? My father's heart condition has been slowly improving. He hasn't had a heart attack in years thank God! I heard your brother's condition has gotten better. I'm sure he'll make an excellent rabbi being the brother of you. Have you kept in touch with your father? My dad told me that your father is still upset about Israel. Maybe one day we can go with our families and check it out. This leads to a concern of mine. Now that you're married, when you have a child, will you raise it in silence. I feel as if many alternative roads can be taken. I am trying to teach my son compassion by pet ownership. It seems to be working so far. Soon I might tell your dad about this!
-How are your psyco-analysis studies at Colombia doing? Will you be earning your full degree? More importantly, how have your studies affected your views of philosophy and religion? Are you still Jewish? I understand if you are too uncomfortable to answer
these questions. I'm going to be a rabbi soon. I feel that is will be a big responsibility and I am, honestly, terrified. Also, I will be taking a math course in Williamsburg College next year.
-Hope to see you soon, my good friend.
Your Friend, Reuven
10/20/1953
ReplyDeleteDear Reuven,
Wow. I can't believe its been so long. I miss you terribly. We haven't spoken since graduation. The day I walked off in my metal capped shoes. I remember looking into your eyes that last day and thinking to myself. I thought about how much you impacted my life. I think that because of you, I was able to understand what I needed in my life: truth. I needed someone to give me that push. I was getting so tired of quietly reading books in the library. You are the reason my father opened up to me. Now I can see what a wonderful man he is. He's just as wonderful as you and your father.
But lets move on. You already know how wonderful you've been. I have to know how you are doing. Even though I know you care about me, you'll probably ask about my sister. She's fine. She's married now. I dont know what to say about it. You would have probably made her happier, because she doesn't speak much. My brother Levi is also doing great. He hasn't been in the hospital for quite some time. I guess it made me selfish to say that I didn't care much for him, only pity him. But I hope you understand that I do care about him. He's studying on becoming a rabbi. I hope he is as great as you are ;). Maybe you can teach him things you know! Speaking of you.... how's being a rabbi? I hope it is making you happy. Studying psychology has really opened my mind. I'm now even more curious about the world and religions. Every religion is so unique, yet so connected. Its amazing how this study has opened up my mind and view on the world. I'm working very hard to increase my knowledge, but its a lot of work. I barely get any free time. Writing this letter to you is just heart-warming.
It bugs me that we were so close once. I remember putting you in hospital, and wanting to kill you. Huh, it seemed like such a good decision back then. You seemed annoying. You kept talking and talking at the plate. Don't think I didn't hear your weird friends calling us murderers. But that's the past. What I want is a future for us. We have to reconnect. Connecting with you will connect me to my father. Studying so much makes it hard to keep contact with him. Do you see him still? He's in love with you. That is probably why I liked you so much.
How is your father? Is he doing well? Please tell me that you are taking care of him. You were so brave to care for him and watch over him. I hope that I can have someone do that for me one day. Sadly, I haven't met anyone. I'm single................. yupp... I'm single. Are you single? It doesn't matter. Sorry for asking; you don't have to answer.
We'll meet up one day. Okay? How about at Peeta's Bread Shop? I hear his place is beautiful. He has flowers growing outside. I think they are called Primroses. What a beautiful name. If I have a kid one day, she'll be named Primrose. Okay, I'm getting side tracked.
Anyways, call me and we'll discuss meeting up!
Write back very soon!
Danny Saunders
November 15, 1953
DeleteDearest Danny,
Old friend, it has been such a long time since we have seen each other, but it is so good to finally hear from you. The two of us were inseparable the last year of college and I greatly miss seeing your face, in addition to those earlocks and long beard, which I assume you no longer have. Please send a picture of yourself, I would love to see how much you've changed.
I am glad that you are doing well in psychology. You always had such as passion for it. How's Freud these days? Have you found anyone knew that you like? I've been reading the New York Times and I keep hearing the term "Existentialism" being thrown around, not sure that I would be into it, being a rabbi and all, but have you read anything about it?
You've asked about being a rabbi, well, it's hard work, that's for sure, but it's a rewarding profession. I have always enjoyed helping those in need and I feel that by being a rabbi I am able to give back to the Jewish community. Since we have last spoken I traveled to Israel. It was a life changing experience; and although the fighting remains, things have improved significantly. You should go sometime, you'll feel right at home. I am still able to keep up with my symbolic logic and it still manages to excite me greatly. While I am extremely busy, just as you are, I have been able to spend more time with abba. He is doing very well, finally taking my advice and resting a bit. He's still writing papers and spending time at the library though, just like old times.
And about the whole relationship status thing, well, I've dated a few girls recently, and I think I've finally found the one. Her name is Hannah Goldwitz and she's the fairest of them all. We just met a few weeks ago, but I know she's the one for me. I'll show you some photographs when I see you.
Speaking of seeing you, I'd love to meet you at Peeta's Bread Shop, the one on 13th street between Katniss Lane, right? ;D It's gotten great reviews from what I've heard. I'm free Sunday the 29th. Bring your old man along too. We can catch up, read a little Talmud, and maybe toss a ball around. Let me know if that date works for you!
Fondly,
Reuven Malter
05/10/1951
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
It has been quite some time since we have last seen each other face to face. I hope to rekindle the flames of our friendship and make up for these lost years.
Though our separation was rather unfortunate, it may have been the ideal experience needed in preparing for the future. Leading down different paths it is essential that we become accustomed to a life of independence and individuality which encourages growth and maturation.
During this time apart, I have been dwelling on your well-being and studies at Columbia. Has it been everything you hoped it would be? Also, what are your father's current views on the situation?
I am interested in your thoughts and response. Please keep in touch.
Your friend,
Reuven
Dear Danny,
DeleteIt has been a long time indeed. I miss the days where we'd see each other everyday and spend hours together doing. I remember seeing you for the first time and it was almost as enriching as seeing that baseball nearly kill me. I think it's safe to say that that day changed us both.
Sometimes I can't believe we became friends the way we did. My father tells me it's meant to be, but I don't know what to believe anymore. Everything has taken a turn down the wrong alley. I just wish things would go back to the way they were. Long nights in your room, reading that Talmud or having your father yell at us. I'd even take that over what's happening now. Speaking of your father, how is he? Have you two spoken? I'm really sorry about what happened between you to. I know you might not think so, but I'm sure he only watches out for you, even if his methods in doing so are.... unorthodox.
Anyway, on a lighter note, how goes your studies? How is Colombia treating you? Psychology isn't an easy subject, so I'm sure you're buried in your books as usual. Just promise me you'll lighten up sometime. Life isn't all about books and letters. I'll see you soon Danny. Don't be a stranger.
-Reuven
4/10/1952
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
It has been so long since I have seen you. I hope you are not any skinnier than you were before. Wow, its been 3 years since I have seen you or heard from you. I can't wait to see you. In this vacation we'll meet up someplace.
So hows life? My dad had told me that you are now speaking to your father and he is speaking to you and your brother, Levi, is going to be the next tzaddik of the dynasty. In another 3 years you will be done studying psychology. I remember those long hours that you spent studying Frued. You studied so well your eyes used to get blood shot as if you were on multiple drugs. Right now, Im the rabbi of my synagogue. Your brother Levi is in perfect health and is helping me in my Talmud studies. My dad has grown tired and looks weaker over the years. He barely gets any sleep and he always seems tired. I guess it is probably how much he teaches. The doctor told him to rest, but he still works too much. So, are you still practicing the Jewish religion or are you practicing some other religion or no religion at all.If you did not get married invite me to your wedding. If you did i wish to see your family one day.
Your friend,
Rueven
4/15/1952
DeleteDear Reuven,
I am so glad to finally hear from you and yes, it has been three years since I have seen you. I am so sorry that we have not kept in touch; however, I have always thought of you. Ever since that day when I have walked away with my metal-capped shoes tapping on the sidewalk, I have never stopped thinking about you. You have always been by my side and supported me. My father and I talk constantly on the phone now. It is all thanks to you. I still can clearly envision that afternoon of the first day of Passover when you came over to my house. Just recently, I was thinking of that day and I realized that that everything about that day was just amazing and symbolic. Just think of it, we were celebrating Passover, a holiday celebrating the Jew’s freedom from slavery in ancient Egypt. and on that afternoon I escaped the silence in which I was brought up in and the pressure of become a tzaddik. I cannot express my gratitude to you.
As for my brother, Levi, he has been visiting the hospital less frequently now and has been preparing to become a tzaddik, following my father. Also, I in love with Columbia. It is more then anything I could have wished for. I still stay up late in the library studying but I also realized that there is more to physiology then Freud. I have learned so much more in Columbia then in that library I used to sit in for hours. I cannot wait to receive my PHD in psychology. I was also thinking of going to Stanford to finish my last year of studies. More about that when we will meat next time.
Reuven, you MUST urge your father to rest. After your father has experienced more then one heart attack he has to take his health seriously. I hope he regains his strength but who can blame that man for wanting to teach. I still have not forgotten how he recommend me books on psychology in the library.
Lastly, one important thing has happened to me over these few years. I have met a girl, Hanna Weinstein. She is beautiful, smart, and most definitely impressed with my photographic memory. She is also interested in psychology and has decided to travel to Stanford to continue her studies in psychology. This fact is perhaps the driving force in my desire to move to Stanford. Reuven, I can’t wait for you to meet her. I think she is the one. I have talked to my father about her, and he was very happy for me. Perhaps, a wedding is a good idea, and don't worry you will be my best man.
Reuven, please stay in touch. I miss you desperately. I am free most weekends; maybe we could spend Shabbat together again. I would love that. Please tell me more about how it feels like to be a rabbi and when you would like to meet up. One day, you can come and visit me in Manhattan.
Your friend,
Danny
June 10, 1953
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
How are you? Long time no see! Why have you stopped coming over on saturdays? Is my matzah not good enough for you? But seriously, I miss you. How is Columbia, are you still working on your psychiatrist degree? I really do hope that you are not overworking yourself, remeber the last time you worked so hard, you needed glasses! Also, the last time I saw you you looked so skinny, fatten up, eat some latkes! I have finished my ordination to be a rabbinate a few years ago, and I recently got my own synagoughe. You should vist and meet my congregation. I will let you be part of my daven any time. How is your dad, is he doing better? Are you speaking to him more often and freely? My dad is in good health. Its as if the messiah has blessed him, for he has gained weight and is in good spirits. And to think i saw so worried these past few years. I already have a girlfriend and I am planing to propose soon. Do you have a girlfriend or a wife? I hope you will visit my synnagouge and we can get back to being great friends like in the good old times!
YOur friend,
Reuven
Frishta A,
DeleteJuly 8, 1953
Dear Reuven,
I am sorry that I haven't spoken to you for so long or have visited you on Saturday's. I miss you too, but it seems that all the work in Columbia has made me a little disorganized lately. Never the less I have been doing great in Columbia. I wanted to congratulate you on your achievement of getting your own synagoughe. I hope to visit you some time, and I will make sure to come and visit you once I find some free time. My father has been doing well, we began speaking more often. He has been doing well and has given Levi his position. I see your father is doing tell him I said Hello and that we should sit down and talk sometime, I have read some books on Alfred Adler and wanted to have a discussion. I am so glad you have found yourself someone you truly love. I give my blessing to you and your girlfriend. It seems though I have also found love. But I am already engaged I proposed to my girlfriend last month and she said yes. We are planning the wedding next summer. I hope to see you there and your family. I will promise to come and visit sometime so your girlfriend can meet my fiancée, and we can chat like old times. I am in my last years of psychology in Columbia and I am planing to become a Clinical Psychologist. Hopefully everything in life works out fine for both of us. Hope to see you soon.
Your friend,
Danny
February 7, 1953
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
It's been a long time since we seen each other. How are you and your family? How is Columbia? I heard you are doing pretty well in the field of psychology. Everybody must be impressed by your photographic memory. I bet your father must be proud. Speaking of your father, how is he? Has he started to speaking to you? Or he is still giving the silent treatment..? I really hope the communication between you two has increased. By the way, my father is improving since his heart attack. But he still has to go to doctor regularly for a checkup. You would be happy to know that my father constantly questions me about you and praises you. It really starting to get annoying. I guess he just misses you.
How is your brother, Levi? I never got to see him again after you left for Columbia. However, my father told me his condition is improving. He will eventually be an excellent rabbi since after all he is your brother.
If you are wondering, I have officially become a rabbi. My father is proud of me but I think he still wanted me to become a mathematician. Honestly, I am a little overwhelmed by the responsibilities I have now. I hope I won't regret my decision on becoming a rabbi.
We should definitely meet up soon. I have found some readings from the Talmud that I wanted to share with you. Hope to see you soon!
Your Friend,
Rueven
P.S. Father sends you his regards
February 27, 1953
DeleteDear Reuven,
It has certainly been a long time since we have spoken, I was starting to worry that you forgot me. Send me a picture of you so I can see how much you have changed. My father is slowly degrading the wall of silence between us. His heart is comforted by the fact that Levi is going to continue the dynasty. My sister got a daughter, and my mom is fine. As for me, I am well just a little tired with all the studying. Columbia is great I am able to pursue my dream career. Physiology is still my major. I decided to try to read Freud again, this time I understand it fully. Yes indeed, my photographic memory impresses many. It’s this little ability that got me a girl, her name is Dinah. My father is proud and he does tells me that he always knew he had a brilliant son, just could not tell me because he was raising me with silence. It is nice to hear that your father’s health is improving after his heart attack. I miss you and your father. How is he? Does he still work?
My brother… well the thing is I don’t keep in touch with him. My concern for him disappeared after I knew that he could take my place and continue the dynasty. He will indeed be an excellent rabbi, better than me. Thinking back, I never had intentions of becoming a rabbi, I only wanted to be a physiologist.
I knew you would become a rabbi, you always wanted to be one. Congratulations, it makes me happy to know my friend has his dreams come true. You won’t regret being a rabbi, one holds great responsibilities.
I have great news to share that Dinah and I are getting married. You must attend my wedding Reuven. I hope you don’t get too busy, since you are a rabbi.
I have also been studying the Talmud daily and would love to hear about your comments. My finals are in end of April so I should see you by May.
Your best friend,
Danny
P.S. find a girl, because my sister is defiantly staying with her family so forget her. I’ll have my baseball and bat ready, so we can play a good game.
December 21, 1951
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
It's been such a long time since we last talked. I've missed talking to you. How is everything? How is Levi doing? I sure hope that his health is better now. Did he continue the dynasty that you guys have going? My father's health is much better than it was before. The color i back in his cheeks and he has fattened up.
How is Columbia? Are you enjoying your classes and making new friends? I'm curious to know what the effect of the psycho-analysis classes are on your religious beliefs. Did your beliefs waver because of the knowledge you obtained form your college classes? If so, explain what caused your beliefs to waver and why your beliefs did shake. I really just need to know everything that's been going on in your life. I bet everyone is appraising your photographic memory, as our acquaintances in the past all have. Speaking of acquaintances, any special someones in your life?
My father seems to miss seeing you around so much. he occasionally asks where you are and questions the status of our friendship, odd, right? Wow, so much to tell, this letter won't fit all the questions and occurrences in my life that I need to ask and tell you. You need to stop by and say "Hi" sometime soon. We have much to discuss.
January 5, 1952
DeleteDear Reuven,
It sure has been a long time since we last spoke, hasn't it? How has your life been? Did you learn anything new about the Torah or the Talmud, or have your studies been only how to teach your flock about the Holy Text? I remember when I wanted to be a rabbi, or, when my father wanted me to be a rabbi. Those were the days, when you and me would walk around Brooklyn and talk to different people. Remember how we met? I sure do. Who would have thought an urge to kill would lead to a beautiful relationship?
Columbia was good, except it was very hot, so i did not wear the traditional Hasidic Clothes. I have made many new friends, maybe one day you might meet them, and my classes are great! the effects on my religious beliefs are small, i had already read about many of the things we are studying so it does not surprise me. My photographic memory is not very impressive here, there are a few with the same advantage, and no, no one special so far. I think I will take you up on the "Hi" request. I may return for a small vacation.
Your best friend,
Danny
6/27/1950
ReplyDeleteDear Reuven,
How are you? We have a lot to catch up on. Well first of all, college has made me an expert on psychology and I feel that I should share my studies with you when we meet again. I’m sure you’ll be quite impressed! Everything seems to be going my way, especially with my brother, Levi, becoming the next rabbi of the family, upholding the dynasty and pleasing my father. Not only is his health superb, but he has also become a great leader as rabbi. Everyone at the synagogue respects and follows his example.
Although I have devoted my time to psychology, and I don’t wear traditional Hasidic clothing or wear ear locks anymore, I still continue to a Hasidic Jew. I hope we can continue to have discussions on our religious practices and academic interests when we finally see each other again. I really miss how you were always so understanding when it comes to my problems. You were both my friend and mentor.
I look forward to seeing you again
Yours truly,
Danny
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Delete6/30/1951
DeleteDear Danny,
My old friend, it’s been so long since we have spoken in person. I can’t believe you took the time out of your studies at Columbia University to write a letter to me. This really means a lot. How are you my friend? I am doing well, and your father is also in good health now, in case you were wondering. I’m glad to hear that you are enjoying your studies, and definitely look forward to you telling me all about them! As you know, I have decided to become a rabbi, and am currently studying at a yeshiva, where I have encountered your brother Levi numerous times. He will make a great rabbi, I am sure of it! Everyone respects him, and follows him! Now that Levi has grown up some more, he looks a lot like you. Every time I look at him, I think of you…. I really wish you were home.
Oh yes, Danny, there is one more thing I must inform you of. Do you remember your sister? Do you remember that one day in the library when I tried telling you about my feelings for her, but you told me she was already promised in marriage to another man? Well, it turns out that I just couldn’t stop thinking about her. So, I went to your father and asked for her hand in marriage. Your father was so overjoyed that I might become a part of your family that he decided to break off the promised marriage, and give her to me. We are now a happy couple, and in just 3 more months, I will be a proud father. Also, if it is a baby boy we have decided to name it Reb. If it is a girl, she shall be named Reba.
Now that President Truman signed the peace treaty with Japan, Officially Ending WWII, everything is at ease, and life is very peaceful. Your sister and I often just sit at my home, where my dad let us stay, and watch the color TV, where we can experience things besides WWII bombings for once.
I hope we meet soon, and I wish you the very best.
Your old friend,
Reuven malter
6/30/1951
DeleteDear Danny,
My old friend, it’s been so long since we have spoken in person. I can’t believe you took the time out of your studies at Columbia University to write a letter to me. This really means a lot. How are you my friend? I am doing well, and your father is also in good health now, in case you were wondering. I’m glad to hear that you are enjoying your studies, and definitely look forward to you telling me all about them! As you know, I have decided to become a rabbi, and am currently studying at a yeshiva, where I have encountered your brother Levi numerous times. He will make a great rabbi, I am sure of it! Everyone respects him, and follows him! Now that Levi has grown up some more, he looks a lot like you. Every time I look at him, I think of you…. I really wish you were home.
Oh yes, Danny, there is one more thing I must inform you of. Do you remember your sister? Do you remember that one day in the library when I tried telling you about my feelings for her, but you told me she was already promised in marriage to another man? Well, it turns out that I just couldn’t stop thinking about her. So, I went to your father and asked for her hand in marriage. Your father was so overjoyed that I might become a part of your family that he decided to break off the promised marriage, and give her to me. We are now a happy couple, and in just 3 more months, I will be a proud father. Also, if it is a baby boy we have decided to name it Reb. If it is a girl, she shall be named Reba.
Now that President Truman signed the peace treaty with Japan, Officially Ending WWII, everything is at ease, and life is very peaceful. Your sister and I often just sit at my home, where my dad let us stay, and watch the color TV, where we can experience things besides WWII bombings for once.
I hope we meet soon, and I wish you the very best.
Your old friend,
Reuven malter
July 6, 1956
ReplyDeleteBorough Park
Brooklyn, New york
Dear Reuven,
Do you remember the first day we met, down to the details of the incident? It has been five years since we’ve been in contact, and while I was looking for one of my textbooks, I came across our yearbook. I don’t really know what compelled me to pick the book up, but I did and I looked through every page remembering every face and then I came to yours. I sat there looking at that one picture for what seemed like hours and I remembered that June afternoon. That painful softball game that caused our fight argument and our friendship to begin. Who would’ve thought some shards of glass in the eye could create such a strong friendship? Well it did, and you sure did help me in those tough times, I would start a list, but I’m afraid the paper would run out. But it’s quite funny how things turned out. I’m still living in New York, after Columbia I moved to Borough Park, a very large community of Orthodox Jews, I still shave my beard and I no longer dress in my attire. I’m studying psychology, and in the final year towards earning my PhD. I spent all these years learning mental health; I began to question my own.
You’re probably wondering how things went on with my father. Well Levi, that sick bugger, finally decided to do his brother some good and got better. As you can imagine, I now consider Levi my opposite because he was so excited to take over father’s dynasty, and I was so excited to have the weight of ending the dynasty off my chest. I visit my father every month, he’s pretty old now, and we’ve been trying to fix all those years of miscommunication and silence.
As for my own personal relationships, I currently am working on that. Remember the girl that attended the school couple blocks down from your house, the one with the brown hair, brown eyes. The one we called plain. Well she started to grow on me, and every time I’d visit the old neighborhood in Williamsburg, I’d see her walking up the road. I once had the nerve to stop her to talk but then I told her she had something on her teeth. I don’t really know why I froze, she didn’t even have anything on her teeth, not only did her cheeks turn a cherry red but she lit up and sped away. My chances are probably slim but I’m visiting my father tomorrow, and I’m bound to see her there unless she is now avoiding me. But how about you, anyone special, you were always the popular one, so I wouldn’t be surprised. How are you doing? Maybe when you have the time we could plan a meeting.
Yours Truly,
Danny Malter
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Danny Malters
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PS. If you don’t send me a response by the next two weeks, I might have to come find you.
July 21, 1956
DeleteNew York, NY
Dear Danny,
It's a shame that I am sending you this letter a day late. You haven't come to find me yet... The last time I saw you was when you were on your journey to Columbia to study psychology. How is your father fairing? Is he talking to you anymore than he was before? Why yes I do remember that game of softball like it was just yesterday. Maybe if you hadn't tried to kill me that day I wouldn't have met you and built a friendship we have today. At least my eyes are all functional. So Levi is a rabbi now? Impressive. Tell him to contact me one day. We should study Talmud together or even talk about our experiences as a rabbi.
I hope everything is good with you, Danny. I really miss those college years of awkward silence. But I knew you were communicating with me. As always, I have my beard and non-shaved face. As a rabbi, It is my duty to set an example for my followers. I am proud to hear that the Jewish communities are expanding throughout the New York region.
My personal relationships are not as shining as yours might be. I do not think I am yet ready to think about marriage. My arranged marriage has not taken place. I have been pushing it off for quite a while now. I am so glad to hear you're hitting on the girls back at Williamsburg. I wish you the best with her, if you can get her that is. I am stressed out more than ever. I have never felt like this before. The position of a rabbi sometimes makes me want to crawl into a cave and forget about all the concerns of people. With great power comes great responsibility. I hope to see you very soon. Don't forget to invite me to your wedding. I look forward to seeing you and Reb Saunders once again.
May 15, 1956
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
How are you, my friend? I have not seen you for so long. I expect that you must be busy with your upcoming wedding - congratulations! Tell your charming Annamarie that I send her my best regards for a happy marriage. I am more at ease knowing that she will be there to drag your nose out of your beloved psychology books now and then! You are already a fine psychologist, anyway; I have seen your scientific publications from Columbia.
In case you were wondering, I am doing fine as a rabbi. I might not have a photographic memory like a certain someone, but the people are starting to rely on me for their issues. Remember the incident back when we were little, when you introduced me to your father? Two Hasidic men came up to you for help interpreting a section from the Talmud. I feel like the Jewry are starting to come to me to resolve problems, and it is an exhilarating feeling!
By the way, how is Levi doing at upholding the Saunders dynasty? Is your relationship with Levi improving now? I heard that he is healing from his chronic illness, danken Got! On the streets, Hasidim talk about how Levi is looking more and more like your father. They say that he will make a great rabbi given time. I bet Reb Saunders would love to hear that one. Tell him for me, would you? Send him my salutations.
Also, have you heard about the Hungarian Revolution? Nu, it's so terrible; the Hungarian Jewry has been in existence long before anyone can remember, but 15,000 Jews and counting are now fleeing Hungary. Anti-Semitic events in Hungary are still continuing, or so I have heard from the people at the synagogue. I hope the Jewry will find safety and these pointlessly violent acts will end soon. What are your thoughts about the situation at hand?
On a lighter note, I think I am going to visit you and Annamarie soon. I will bring my girlfriend, Josephine, along as well. She is a kind soul, and I think you will approve of her. I am thinking about proposing soon, so tell me all the pointers to proposing when I get there!
Your best friend,
Reuven
P.S. Don’t worry, I’m not going to fall asleep on the train ride to your home. If I close my eyes, I will just be reviewing my symbolic logic!
May 15, 1956
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
How are you, my friend? I have not seen you for so long. I expect that you must be busy with your upcoming wedding - congratulations! Tell your charming Annamarie that I send her my best regards for a happy marriage. I am more at ease knowing that she will be there to drag your nose out of your beloved psychology books now and then! You are already a fine psychologist, anyway; I have seen your scientific publications from Columbia.
In case you were wondering, I am doing fine as a rabbi. I might not have a photographic memory like a certain someone, but the people are starting to rely on me for their issues. Remember the incident back when we were little, when you introduced me to your father? Two Hasidic men came up to you for help interpreting a section from the Talmud. I feel like the Jewry are starting to come to me to resolve problems, and it is an exhilarating feeling!
By the way, how is Levi doing at upholding the Saunders dynasty? Is your relationship with Levi improving now? I heard that he is healing from his chronic illness, danken Got! On the streets, Hasidim talk about how Levi is looking more and more like your father. They say that he will make a great rabbi given time. I bet Reb Saunders would love to hear that one. Tell him for me, would you? Send him my salutations.
Also, have you heard about the Hungarian Revolution? Nu, it's so terrible; the Hungarian Jewry has been in existence long before anyone can remember, but 15,000 Jews and counting are now fleeing Hungary. Anti-Semitic events in Hungary are still continuing, or so I have heard from the people at the synagogue. I hope the Jewry will find safety and these pointlessly violent acts will end soon. What are your thoughts about the situation at hand?
On a lighter note, I think I am going to visit you and Annamarie soon. I will bring my girlfriend, Josephine, along as well. She is a kind soul, and I think you will approve of her. I am thinking about proposing soon, so tell me all the pointers to proposing when I get there!
Your best friend,
Reuven
P.S. Don’t worry, I’m not going to fall asleep on the train ride to your home. If I close my eyes, I will just be reviewing my symbolic logic!
(Sorry, my computer had an error and double-posted.)
DeleteNovember 18th 1952
ReplyDeleteDear Reuven,
It's been quite a while, hasn't it? I know I told you and your father that I would see you guys on Shabbat and I'm so sorry that I never did. You see, once I got to Columbia I just got overwhelmed with all the work. I tried to make time but the work kept piling on, and I knew my dreams of being a psychologist were getting closer and closer. How is your dad, by the way? I hope everything is well with you guys, I would hate for something to have happened and for me to have not been there to help you guys. I was speaking to my father yesterday, yes we speak much more now, about the old times. He misses you, you know. Maybe we can all spend some time together for old times sake. My brother is still sick but he has been studying with my father so that he can take my fathers place as tzaddick. I'm glad that he's doing it, he seems to be much happier with the idea than I was. My sister on the other hand is married if you were wondering, which your probably were. Have you settled down and found the perfect woman yet? I've been seeing this girl that has lives down the hall from me at my residency, that reminds me. I must tell you all about it. I am working with this residency program in Manhattan and it's pretty great. I've met so many new people and I have learned so much from all the doctors. This really is what I want to do with the rest of my life. How about you, are you enjoying your life as a rabbi? Is it everything that you imagined it to be? I still can't believe it's been 4 years since we've seen each other, we have to meet up soon. I miss having you there to listen to me when I need someone to talk to. Remember that time where I was going on and on about my family problems and how I didn't want to become tzaddick? I may of not told you then but thanks for being there to listen. I promise to start writing more to you and hopefully you'll write back! See you soon.
Your friend,
Danny
November 21 1952
DeleteDear Danny,
Sorry for the late reply. I am so glad that you wrote to me after 4 years because I was starting to think that you totally forgot about me. Wow, I cannot believe that it has been 4 years already. So much has happened in my life because during these 4 years, I have been enrolled in a seminary program to study more about the Torah and the Hebrew literature, and soon I hope to be named a rabbi.
I am extremely glad that you are living down the hall with a girl that you like. This reminds me about the time during college that I told you that you should start dating. You replied that you were to be betrothed to some girl that your father chose for you. Anyways, you are not the only one with a girl because I also met this girl named Norah Fuller. Norah and I have been going out for nearly 3 years now.
I can see that Freud and psychology is going well for you. Don't stress yourself out too much. Also, how is your father? Tell him that I may come to visit him during Shabbat, and that he and I could have a discussion about the Torah. And how is Levi? I know that he is in great condition, but how are his studies so far? If it is possible, I hope to talk to Levi and give him some advice like I did to help you.
Remember all our "fun" times together especially the ones that were not as "fun". The baseball and my eye and your dislike towards Dr. Applemen...those were the days of our wonderful friendship. I also remember the day that I saw you with glasses for the first time. What a shocker that was!
It was great to actually write to you. I really do want us to meet up somewhere. Maybe next week or so we could go meet up at a bakery or a cafe nearby Williamsburg. There are many thoughts that I want to tell you about, but not all thoughts, feelings, or actions can be written down on paper. You can call me at 945-555-9843 after 7 PM.
Your best friend,
Reuven
5/29/1951
ReplyDeleteDear Reuven,
It's great to hear from you. I'm sorry I haven't been visiting you for Shabbat like I promised. My time in Columbia is going great. All of that reading and studying Freud is actually paying off. It won't be long until I get my doctorate. The Psychoanalysis class is going great. Other students and i get to administer psychoanalytic treatment for individual patients while under supervision. Also the faculty her is full of wonderful professors and insightful lecturers. Sometimes I invite a few friends to my apartment near Columbia for study. Some of them are Hasidic Jews just like me. They also had to shave their beard and earlocks too. They've gotten used to the new look but I still can't get over it.
By the way, I've taken your advice and started dating since I don't have to be married off anymore. Her name is Rebecca. You would really like her. She is a lot like my sister.
Anyway everything is going great with my family. levi is actually doing well and his illness seems to be wearing. Levi is set on becoming a rabbi and is even studying the Talmud more regularly and talking to the congregation. We're even talking together more.
Speaking of talking, Reb Saunders and I are still talking to each other since that day. He says that he really is proud of my success in Columbia and he is happy I'm still following the Commandments. By the way I never properly thanked you for coming with me on that day and comforting me through all the silence. So "Thank You."
It's great to hear that everything in your yeshiva is going well. How is your father, though? I hope he's feeling well.
Sometimes, it's funny thinking about when he first met I knocked a baseball to your face and now we're the best of friends. Thank you for everything. See you soon, you apikoros.
From,
Danny
December 30, 1952
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
Remember me? Its the guy you hit a baseball at! How are you doing at college? How is Columbia and how the field of psychology? I am now a rabbi and I have my on synagogue to preach in. My father is doing well now and he is proud of both of us.
I have met a girl that I get along with and we plan on getting married. Her name is Kochava and she is amazing. We Have you met the "one" yet? If you have, are you married yet and do you have kids yet?
How is Levi? Is he still sick? I heard that he was studying to become a tzaddick to replace your dad in the future. How is your dad? Does he talk to you more now or does he still give you the silent treatment?
We should really meet up to catch up on things that have happened. Come over this Saturday to study the Talmud with my dad and me.
Your Friend,
Reuven
January 1st, 1952
DeleteDear Reuven,
It's so nice to hear from you! I just received your letter in the mail today. Happy New Year! I wish you and your father great health and luck.
Columbia is absolutely wonderful. The psychology professor is the next Freud, a genius. I've learned so much from him these past few years. Tell your father I said thank you for everything.
Between all of my psychology classes and other courses, I haven't found much time to even think about dating. I did have a few dates with the the girl my father arranged me to marry, but they weren't anything special. Maybe somewhere in the future, I'll find her. That one special person who understands me, cares about me, loves me for who I am, and makes my heart race. Someone like you.
Levi is still the same, but he has made gradually improvements. I've been able to get closer with him over these past few years. He's extremely bright and I feel 100% relieved in trusting Levi to carry on the dynasty of becoming the tzaddik. My father still does not talk to me. But he does give me many meaningful gestures. I now he does care about me and I think he is a honorable man.
Reuven, I would love to meet up with you again. It's been a really long time. I miss you like crazy. I can't wait until Saturday.
Your for Eternity,
Danny
2/20/1956
ReplyDeleteDear Daniel,
It is hard to believe that it has been five years since we last spoke, how the time flies. It appears that we have both reached important milestones in our lives. I would have contacted you sooner, but as my wedding approaches, I am as busy as ever! I talked to Mr. Saunders; he told me about your wedding too! Best wishes to you and your wife! You might want to lie low on the psychology books, though. Hope your eyesight is getting better; you want to make sure that you can still see your wife. Wouldn’t want to get blind right before your wedding, right? Anyways, since I last me you, I have finished my year of smicha, and I am on my way to the rabbinate. Nevertheless, I still have my interests in the sciences, and that’s how I remembered you: reading your published articles in Columbia’s science journals!
I remember the time when we first met. It is as if God had wanted us to meet. Now that I think about it, the baseball game, my dad recommending secular books for, it seems so simple. The outcome, however, is great. We both learned from each other, supported each other, even when our views were very different. Had it not been for God, I would not have known you, and therefore, would not have become a rabbi. So I just want to thank god, for giving me a marvelous friend.
I heard that Levi is doing fine also. He’s also into the rabbinate, like father like son. But it’s not the same with you. You are completely different form your father. Also, send my greetings to Mr. Saunders. My father is doing fine, too. He has recovered from the cardiac problems, and he’s the same wisdom teacher he’s always been. It’s funny. Times change, but people don’t.
You, being the science guy, have probably not heard about the uprising at Hungary. Many Jews have fled to Canada. It seems that in the very near future, they are going to take religion and put it in politics. My dad has led many debates to house these Jewish refugees in America. Even though it’s working, not everyone agrees; there’s always someone.
Bring your fiancé to my wedding (that is, if you’re not married before I am). My wedding date is not confirmed yet. I thank you again for being a great friend in the past. I hope you still remember the times we’ve spent together. May God bless you. I’ll send you my wedding invitation as soon as possible.
Till then,
Reuven
(Please disreagard this).
Delete2/20/1956
ReplyDeleteDear Daniel,
It is hard to believe that it has been five years since we last spoke, how the time flies. It appears that we have both reached important milestones in our lives. I would have contacted you sooner, but as my wedding approaches, I am as busy as ever! I talked to Mr. Saunders; he told me about your wedding too! Best wishes to you and your wife! You might want to lie low on the psychology books, though. Hope your eyesight is getting better; you want to make sure that you can still see your wife. Wouldn’t want to go blind right before your wedding, right? Anyways, since I last me you, I have finished my year of smicha, and I am on my way to the rabbinate. Nevertheless, I still have my interests in the sciences, and that’s how I remembered you: reading your published articles in Columbia’s science journals! You know, I still wonder how you got that photographic memory. I believe your parents are very proud. Come to think of it, I have never been introduced to your mother. Why did you never introduce her to me?
I remember the time when we first met. It is as if God had wanted us to meet. Now that I think about it, the baseball game, my dad recommending secular books for, it seems so simple. The outcome, however, is great. We both learned from each other, supported each other, even when our views were very different. Had it not been for God, I would not have known you, and therefore, would not have become a rabbi. So I just want to thank god, for giving me a marvelous friend.
I heard that Levi is doing fine also. He’s also into the rabbinate, like father like son. But it’s not the same with you. You are completely different form your father. What was it that made you want to pursue science? I know why you didn’t want to become a rabbi, but you never told me how your interests in the sciences developed. Also, send my greetings to Mr. Saunders. My father is doing fine, too. He has recovered from the cardiac problems, and he’s the same wisdom teacher he’s always been. It’s funny. Times change, but people don’t.
You, being the science guy, have probably not heard about the uprising at Hungary. Many Jews have fled to Canada. It seems that in the very near future, they are going to take religion and put it in politics. My dad has led many debates to house these Jewish refugees in America. Even though it’s working, not everyone agrees; there’s always someone.
Bring your fiancé to my wedding (that is, if you’re not married before I am). My wedding date is not confirmed yet. I thank you again for being a great friend in the past. I hope you still remember the times we’ve spent together. May God bless you. I’ll send you my wedding invitation as soon as possible.
Till then,
Reuven
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ReplyDeleteSeptember 25, 1951
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
Hey Danny! It is so nice to hear from you. Once I saw your name on the vanilla envelope, my heart skipped a beat. You can't even imagine the pain I have gone through. I had been so worried about you being all alone in Columbia. Even though you are only a few miles away, I still feel the empty space where you sat every night with me, thinking, reading, talking, and sleeping. Even though it has only been a few days I miss you so much. I keep thinking, constantly, in my head, "Is Danny really alone or does he have any companions? When is he coming back in town? Are the people around Danny nice?" I must say you are all I think about at the moment.
Thinking about my heart skipping a beat, I must say that I truly have been having a rough time. Don't come running home, but I don't know why, but it seems like déjà vu(I know you know that word, with all the time you spent interpreting Freud.) Remember when we couldn't talk to each other back in college. Now that you have left, my grades have had the similar effect as last time, but don't worry I will work harder than ever because I owe it to you and my father. You see my father was working hard once again for his Zionist movement because everything has been going so well. I think he just was overly excited at the time, and then all of the sudden he was on the floor again. Luckily, Manya found him seconds after he started to have his heart attack. My father is stable at the moment in the hospital. They are going to monitor him for a few days before letting him come home, so I am all alone in this quiet brownstone, which is why I miss your voice the most.
It soothed me when I went through rough times like these and when I had difficulty interpreting the Talmud together. Remember when we use to take turns flipping the pages, but then you use to cheat and flip the page on my turn. You said that you didn't want me to get hurt, like the very first time we met.
It is really nice to hear that you are doing well with your family. Levi will take your original place in your family very well, I am sure of that. I have been going over to your community during the Shabbat. I wanted to throw myself into as much experience as I could, so that I can become the best rabbi ever. Plus it also reminded me a good amount of the past. I congratulated your sister. I am extremely happy that she loves her husband so much. Your father is much more friendlier to me now then ever before. He even smiles. I am glad you decided to give your father a second chance because he certainly is doing well with it.
To answer your beginning questions. I must truthfully say summer has gone by way too fast. I miss those summer nights. I have been singing, "Summer dreams ripped at the seams,bu-ut oh, those su-ummer nights..." I have been thinking about adopting a child. I think we should raise him/her with compassion and silence, because I want our child to grow up to be just like you. See you in a few weeks, may we never be far apart for long.
Love,
Reuven
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August 23rd, 1957
ReplyDeleteDear Reuven,
Even though you are far away from me, I still feel as though we are close. I just finished my studies and I am currently starting up my own clinic. Levi's health is stable for once. Though my relationship with my brother is not as strong as it should be, we are finally getting on the terms of our brotherly love. Fortunately for me, he has continued our families legacy. As far as my father, he is still very silent towards me but he has made progess. He has been teaching me more things about our religion such as how I'm still not wearing the attire that is expected for me.
Anyways, how have YOU been? How has being a rabbi been for you? How are your grades and school? I hope you were still love being a rabbi after that was all you've ever talked about. How's your wife and kids? Haven't seen them in a while. Still waiting for the invitation to you child's first year birthday. Hope to see you soon, bud! Reply soon.
Your friend,
Danny Saunders
September 7th, 1957
DeleteDear Danny,
It's great to hear your relationship with your brother, Levi, is improving. Loving him just because he had the ability to take over the dynasty always seemed a bit sad to me. May he do his best rabbi. As for your father, I hope he is doing well. I still remember how he seemed unwell the last time I saw him. It's been so many years since then, too...
I'm doing great, although still keeping my habits of sleeping at 1 am. You should see my wife. I think she likes scolding me. The friends I have made at school are really kind. We help each other when we need it. They seem to love to hear my explantions. As for Aaron, his birthday isn't for another 3 months! You should come and visit when you have free time. My house definitely has room. Catching up is something we need to do.
Hope to see you again, your friend,
Reuven Malter
1957
ReplyDeleteDear Reuven,
Long time no see! Hos is it going? we have SOOOO much to talk about, i don't even know where to start! First off, how are YOU doing? One thing has been bugging me as i write this letter, i am dying to know, how is your father? i hope everything is going well for you. my father is doing fine, he's actually been starting to talk to me more now. We've had plenty of long conversations sometimes. It feels great to finally feel like i have a father. In addition to that great news, my Brother is getting better. He's been doing great and the doctors say that he is a strong kid, holding up really well. As for my sister, lets not talk about her. Im just joking, she's also doing great. I feel like we have one great big family now and i am really happy.
So enough about me, what about you? Are you in a relationship yet? i think would hold off. I do hope you will find a nice girl. I really do hope your father is doing well. hows being a rabbi holding up for you? if is fun? You would always talk about being one when we were together. well its good to know you're doing something you enjoy. As for me, i have become a psychologist, like i've always wanted. It's great to be able to do something you love. I think my life is getting back on track. This is what it should've been like from the start. Well i must be taking up all of your time. Sorry. Please right back. i have much to hear.
1957
DeleteDear Danny,
Danny, my good man! How's it been? I've been excellent! Everything's going well, even my father, thanks for asking. He's resting from a recent fever he had, but no worries. And congratulations, you and your father must be so happy! And I know what you mean, that feeling when you just talk to someone after years of silence! I'm also glad to hear about the reports of your brother and sister! Oh, my joy is just too ELEVATED! I just wanted to inform you of my recent addiction in potted plant collecting. I think I developed it in the garden in the nearby park...My work as a rabbi has been tremendous lately. I just love going to the synagogue with my fellow followers. However lately, my luck has elevated a little, for I met a divine young woman named Helen S. on my trip to the Rabbi Convention in Japan. She was amazed about the potted plants I've collected, especially the ferns. It turns out she loves plants too! The first potted plant she got was when she was only 8 years old, from her dear grandmother. We've been talking a lot since then. So, psychology, huh? Maybe I should start seeing you, Helen is making crazy love with me, and it's making me insane! Well, old friend, until then.
Reuven
April 1951
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
It has been a while since we talked. I have a lot to ask you, and a lot to tell you. How is Columbia coming along? Are you working as a part-time psychiatrist, yet? How is your family doing? I hope your brother is well, and your sister. You have not told me a lot about her. May you write back to me about your sister. Did you find a nice girl in Columbia? That is enough questions friend, hopefully you will be free during your spring break so we can talk. Let me tell you a little about me. I have grown to be a very successfull rabbi, and everyone in the synagogue and the community respect me a lot. I met a nice girl named Christine, and my father is in good health. It seems so perfect, hopefully it is for you to. Please write back.
Your friend,
Reuven Malter
May 2, 1951
DeleteDear Reuven,
Hello friend. I see that you have a lot of curiosity built up in you. Very well, I shall keep you up to date about what has been revolving around my life. Columbia is coming along rather well, the teachers are wonderful and the students are friendly, especially since my studies are soon to end. I cannot wait to start a real job and make my father proud of me. Speaking of my father, we are back on normal terms. By "normal terms," I mean silence, but it is a comfortable silence. My father is more focused on Levi, however, but I do not mind. Levi has become a great tzaddik and, due to the latest medicine and technology, has become a lot healthier and he does not even need to take that much medication now! My sister is doing well and is quite happy with her husband, thank you for asking. I have not been in contact with her a lot so I cannot write much about her. Talking about relationships...I have not found the right partner here in Columbia... I want someone that I can trust completely, like how I trust you. Also, someone that won't leave my side like how you helped me with my father. I cannot wait to visit you one day and hear you speak. I cannot wait to meet this Christine girl either.
Yours,
Danny Saunders
July 21st, 1957
ReplyDeleteDear Reuven,
How long has it been since we last talked? It feels like ages! We must catch up my friend. I'm doing great in my studies, things seem to be going my way. I hope to open up a medical facility soon in Manhattan. My brother Levi's is in good health and he has welcomed the family legacy with open hands since I of course did not. My father still barely talks to me, but I have the feeling he's starting to come around and accept the idea that I no longer follow his religion.
Enough about me, How's being a rabbi treating you? Have you opened up your own synagogue yet? have you found your significant other? well those are all the questions I'll ask you for now, I hope you write back!!!
Sincerely, Danny Saunders
Uh, Steven, I already posted above...I guess that's okay, though.
DeleteJune 1st, 1956
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
It's been a while since we last talked. How are you doing in Columbia? Is it good? Have you met anybody new? How are your psychiatrist studies going. I hope you're not busy racking your brains too hard. Anyways, I'm sending you this message because it's been a long time since I've heard from you. I'm doing pretty good as my first time being a rabbi. Everyone in my synagogue appreciates me and I'm enjoying doing a lot of Talmud studies. I hope you are communicating with your father more and that your brother is feeling much better. Also, tell your sister that I said hi. I have never heard from her before so tell her that i send my greetings. I want us to meet during this winter break when we can talk a lot and have some free time for ourselves to catch up on the things we've missed out on. My father is busy with his research as always but everything is good so far. Write back as soon as possible.
Sincerely, Reuven Malters
Dear Reuven,
DeleteHow long has it been old friend? Four or five years since we indeed last spoke? It doesn’t matter because I just want to have some time for both of us to catch up on each other’s lives. These days, I have much work seeing crazy or delusional people walk in and out of my office. Oh yes! My office! After Columbia, I decided to get an office right in the heart of New York itself, Manhattan! You may have heard of some of my publications? I’m pretty sure there was one on the effects of baseball and head collisions on the human brain, but I don’t think you need me to explain that to you. That story at the baseball game is one that I always tell my patients. They always wonder if I ever hang out instead of suffocating in the clutter of my office. However, all I could say was that my friends were leading lives of their own. I am also glad that you are such a dedicated rabbi. No wonder everyone at the synagogue appreciates you because it is what you do everyday. That is being there for each person for advice, guidance, and comfort. But don't you ever feel tired of doing the same thing ever single day of your life? Or when you're lonely and you're seeking guidance yourself? Enough of these silly questions. Just please keep me updated on any future plans or decisions because I really want to know!
Sincerely,
Danny
June 6 , 1951
ReplyDeleteDear Danny,
Hey! Do you remember me? You hit me with a ball to my face! Ha ha, I am sure you won't forget that experience. Oh well, how are are you? It is nice to hear from you, I was worried about howw alone you were in Columbia. Did you make any new friends? I would like to meet them if you did! Even though you live probably a few miles from me I still miss your presence. I think i will need a bit help from the expert at psychology.
Oh I forgot to say your dad just celebrated his 67th birthday! But, you didn't come. I hope that you are not having any trouble!
I know I am someone came to me, because I'm now a rabbi and asked my a question that I couldn't answer, I really need your help for this. Meanwhile,my father is still working hard for his Zionist movement and your dad actually is now supporting him!
Meanwhile, hows Levi, your brother, did he become a rabbi? Also what about your sister, I haven't heard of her evenm after her marriage, how is she?
Oh yeah, I forgot! I am now married and I have 2 kids. One of them is a girl named Devi and the other is a boy named Gabe. Devi and gabe are twins! My wife's name is Joelle. Do you have a family? Oh well then, reply back!
Sincerely,
Reuven
September 1, 1951
DeleteDear Reuven,
Columbia is a great experience. Learning to be a psychologist is definitely hard. Hitting the books as usual, but haven't touched the Talmud in ages, you know, life in the city is pretty wild. Maybe we should do our Saturday read like back in the days. Will try to read more though! You know what we should do? We should also play some baseball while we are at it. Haven't played ball in ages! Me, kids? Probably in half a decade, but now I'm more focused in school, but it's not like I will be talking to him anyways. Hit me back, and good luck with your rabbi preaches!
Sincerely,
Danny
June 23, 1952
ReplyDeleteDear Reuven,
Hows it been? It's been so long since we last talked. How's it been going with being a rabbi. Being in Colombia is a great opportunity but requires a lot of hard work. I really want to be a psychologist and am working hard to achieve my goal. I am one of the best in my class. I haven't really gone back to the extremely religious life. I still believe in god and all but I don't read the books anymore and I don't follow the customs. I wish you luck being a rabbi. My father hasn't talked to me still .I think he's still kind of disappointed in me for not following his will. At least i chased my own dream. Study hard and give good interpretations to the people. Respond back soon.
Sincerely,
Danny
June 30, 1952
DeleteDear Danny,
Life is the same as always. My father and I talk all the time and he gives me advice on how to be a better rabbi. I admire your father a lot more now hat I know what he went through. As a rabbi, I barely have any time to think of other things besides the well being of my people. It's hard to blame him for being so silent, but don't think too hard about it. I know he'll come around some day.
Now, on to other things, I'm happy that you are enjoying Columbia and can lie life the way you want it. College wasn't the best experience, but I see that none of it bothered you. Have you decided what type of psychologist you want to be yet? I remember you telling me that there are many different kinds. Also, even though you don't study the Talmud anymore, do you still remember everything because of your photographic memory? There is a part I don't understand and would like your opinion of.
Lastly, has anything with you changed? A new found interest in the opposite sex? Or anything exciting? I know your working hard, but remember to have fun. And at least contact the rest of your family! Levi calls me almost everyday about you. Since you made him continue the dynasty, be nicer to him. That's all for now my friend. I'll be expecting a letter soon.
Sincerely,
Reuven